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   | From
                      the Introduction What
                      a complex world we live in! And, as we all know, it grows
                      increasingly more complex with each day. In some ways this
                      is good, in others perplexing. Surely it must be especially
                      perplexing for the young, who must make sense of it all,
                      with ever increasing agility. Will they be able to increase
                      in this agility with each generation, and keep pace with
                      our world? One wonders. But one must also have hope, and
                      try to provide support and tools which may be of help to
                      them. What
                      once, in the "Ozzie and Harriet" world of the
                      1950's was simple (though one wonders if the world was ever
                      really as it was presented in the media of that time!) is
                      now much broader, much less clearly delineated, and contains
                      much more middle gray.  Perhaps
                      this increasing complexity is just the nature of life, and
                      in some cosmic way, our messy daily lives are simply giving
                      us this message more and more clearly. Or maybe the messiness
                      is an outer manifestation of our inner struggles. No matter,
                      it is no doubt difficult for the young to deal with and
                      understand this cosmic and temporal messiness, as it has
                      always been.  Divorce
                      is an issue which is a perfect example of this cosmic and
                      temporal messiness. It is a tough one for adults as well
                      as children to deal with. It is the purpose of this book,
                      to help the young (and old folks, too, who might be reading
                      or reading to their young) to make some sense of this often
                      painful process. This story endeavors as well, to help young
                      and old alike hang on to some of the hope, optimism, innocence
                      and sense of magic and mystery which is deep inside of all
                      of us. Ideally, we all can hang onto these as we age.  Hope,
                      trust, magic, love- we need these in abundance! No matter
                      our age in years, we need these qualities in us and in all
                      of our relationships. It is my prayer that this little story
                      will help you, and help readers of all ages to pull these
                      qualities up from the deep well that is inside each of us.
                      May you utilize and depend on these qualities as the great
                      mitigators, healers, and joy-bringers that they are. They
                      are all of these indeed, even in the midst of growing pains
                      of all sorts, troubled times, and difficulties in our relationships. Blessings
                      to you all
 Enjoy!The author.
 Written
                      and Illustrated byMichael D. Purvis
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                  | Excerpt
                      from Book: 
                         Illustration
                      by Michael D. Purvis
 Penny
                      was a delightful young lady. She was nine years old and
                      was just beginning the fourth grade at her school, which
                      was down the street from the neighborhood in which she lived.
                      It was a wonderful little school in a small wooded area.
                       Now
                      that she was a fourth grader, she was beginning to really
                      feel at home at her school. She had a wonderful teacher,
                      Miss Lansley, who had promised to read all sorts of books
                      to the children. She was currently reading "Wind in
                      the Willows," to them, which Penny loved, especially
                      the parts about a certain Mr. Toad and all his mishaps with
                      motorcars! Soon, Miss Lansley promised, the class would
                      hear "Stuart Little," "The Jungle Book"
                      and many other books. Penny could not wait!  Penny
                      loved hearing the imaginative stories Miss Lansley read,
                      but there were many other things she loved about the daily
                      time spent in her classroom. It was a truly fascinating
                      place thanks to her kind and fun teacher. There was so much
                      to see and do! There were wonderful, colorful bulletin boards,
                      areas for creating, spaces for discovering, and places to
                      play all throughout the classroom. There was never a dull
                      moment. Penny
                      loved her teacher and her school. She loved the neighborhood
                      too in which her school and her home resided. And, she had
                      many friends. In fact, it was just the sort of place for
                      children to grow up in. Penny and her friends enjoyed its
                      tree lined streets and its big, sunny, grassy yards, filled
                      with places for hide and seek, and what seemed to them like
                      vast expanses designed especially for tag and games of softball.
                       When
                      they felt like feeling the breeze in their hair, Penny and
                      her friends would peddle all about the sidewalks of this
                      delightful, suburban neighborhood laughing and smiling with
                      delight, soaking up all the sunlight they could. And in
                      the evenings, they would play together and catch fireflies.
                      It was a magical place, though they did not particularly
                      think of it as so. It would only appear to them as such
                      in retrospect, when they were older, and viewed it through
                      the veil of time. To them, as children, it was simply home. Soon,
                      Penny knew, it would be autumn and Halloween would come.
                      They would all dress up on that night and go trick or treating.
                      She could see it in her mind's eye, even now. The evening
                      air would be crisp and cool and wind-swept. The sky would
                      be black as coal, with shining stars, and dried leaves would
                      blow about, making that particular, crackly sound that only
                      dead, brown, autumn leaves make when they dance in the wind.
                      It would be a night of intrigue and mystery. Oh how she
                      loved it! But,
                      of course, Halloween would not be the only joy to come,
                      Penny knew. As the weeks came and went, there would be birthday
                      parties, events at school, and then Christmas would come!
                      Indeed, she was looking forward to these things.  "I
                      have a wonderful life with my family and my friends,"
                      Penny thought with a smile, which seemed to come from someplace
                      way down deep inside her.  Inside
                      her? "And just where exactly, from way deep inside,
                      did this smile begin?" The more inquisitive sorts of
                      you might ask. Well,
                      though it was difficult to pinpoint exactly, it began somewhere
                      deep inside her tummy and from there spread out in waves
                      to her entire body! And, this smile, in fact, was more than
                      just an ordinary smile, for it seemed to be leading Penny,
                      always a unique and perceptive girl, toward a rather special
                      feeling and conclusion, as she sat on the porch of her families'
                      cozy, brick ranch house this late summer day.  It
                      was not that this day was so different from others, really,
                      for she had sat on the porch and looked about her with interest
                      many times. The sights were familiar. She saw, for example,
                      just as on any other day, the texture of her home's red,
                      rough bricks. They were there as usual, looking just the
                      same, making her want to reach out and stroke their pocked
                      surface, as they always did.  The
                      green shutters were there too, an almost perfect match to
                      the lush, emerald lawn which her father so carefully cut
                      each Saturday morning. She closed her eyes and could see
                      him pushing the mower in his none-too-fashionable shorts,
                      which Penny teasingly called "Nerd-Dad" shorts.
                      She could see him, too, in his white tennis shoes and the
                      black socks which dads were evidently prone to wearing with
                      such shoes. (Well at least her dad was!) She watched her
                      father pass by in her imagination and loved him, nerdy shorts
                      and all. She could almost, even now, smell that peculiar,
                      delicious scent which came from the fresh cut grass and
                      yellow dandelions. She could see and smell all this and
                      more; and it was then that she realized what the smile that
                      came from inside her tummy was trying to tell her. And
                      what exactly was this funny, out-spreading tummy-smile trying
                      to say? It
                      said:  "You
                      cannot imagine any of these things which you love ever changing.
                      You will love them forever!" And
                      Penny had to admit it was true. She did not want any of
                      this to change: not the red bricks or the green shutters,
                      not the large, old trees lining the streets of her neighborhood,
                      not the whooshing sound these green, summer leaves made
                      in the breeze as she and her friends rode by on their bicycles,
                      not Miss Lansley and the adventurous world of the books
                      she read aloud, not the smell of fresh cut summer grass
                      and dandelions, not even her father's silly, tall, black
                      socks and white tennis shoes, which made the other children
                      giggle! Strange
                      as it might seem, she realized on this particular summer
                      day, how she loved it all. Strangely, she had never really
                      thought in such a way before. It was, after all, just her
                      world. She supposed it was rather ordinary. And yet, nonetheless,
                      the little tummy-smile said:  "Sit
                      up! Look about you! Take notice, girl!"  She
                      did. And, she was glad!
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